The Art of Listening

Today began my new course. Happiness is a skill, Spring 2023. After clarifying our intentions, we jumped into the magic of listening: When You and I become WE. This is not a given. It is a dance that needs a specific choreography.

We need to want to listen to the other one, to take our ego out while she shares her part. Being open-minded and relaxed, present to what comes. Not easy, as our inner voice knows better and wants to comment and judge.

When we listen, we get curious. So sure, an open-minded question will bring energy into the conversation and does not harm.

If you, after hearing the answer manage to reflect back on what you heard, your conversation partner will feel the presence and kindness to give time. To express what needs to be told, for once, without being interrupted. Without a solution — yet, seen!

Champagne for the mind #35 — March 28, 2023